Hi,
In this case the customer takes the order in his own ERP System and if the customer makes changes they don't know, the will use the wrong data.
Well, normally, the billing and shipping address of the order is sent to the ERP when the order is created. And the customer cannot change these in the order. So there shouldn't be any need to send an email because the customer can't change that.
That's why I don't understand what you're trying to do.
The only case where the address in an order would be changed would be if the administrator would change the address of the order from the backend. But in that case, I don't see why an email notification to himself would help in anything.
BTW, I really need your help and need support for my other project, I tried really hard to get in contact with you. Can you please help me in this project too?
I did some investigation and I can see that there were some spam issues at some point where our email provider flagged you as a spammer and I missed your messages.
I'll send you an email from another email address. Hopefully, it should work better.