Hi,
Yes, you'll see the shipping method name on the order so you'll know the selected reseller based on the name of the shipping method selected by the customer during the checkout.
And yes, you can have several shipping methods on the checkout. The one displayed based on the post code of the customer and the one for the delivery to the customer. That way, the customer will select among them.
And if there is no shipping method for the post code, there will only be the delivery to the customer.
There is no message displayed on the checkout in such case, but it would be quite easy to change the code of the view to add such message if necessary.